Randall James Middeke

1/6/1955 - 1/20/2026

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Obituary For Randall James Middeke

Randall James Middeke, 71, of St. Louis, MO, passed away January 20, 2026, with his wife Patti Middeke, children, and loved ones surrounding him while Patti sang Heavenly Day to him.

Randy was born January 6, 1955, to Carol DeCoster and James Middeke. He is survived by his wife Patti Middeke; his children Magdaline (Jonathan) Middeke Meyers, Kristen Middeke, Claire Middeke, Megan Mayfield, and grandchildren Judah, Asher, Henry, and Abram; siblings Shevawn (Sonny) Tankersley, Sheryl (Bart) Middeke, Bret (Robyn) Middeke, Richard (Lynda) Middeke, Rod (Karen) LaBarge, Penny LaBarge-Huster, Bernice and Kim Middeke; stepmother Sally; and so many wonderful aunts, uncles, cousins, in-laws, nieces, nephews, and their children. He is preceded in death by his brother Bart, sister Tammy, mother Carol, father Jim, and stepfather Bob LaBarge.

Randy was a steadfast and adoring husband for 50 years, strong-girl dad, proud grandfather, elder and father figure to many in his church and community. He was the well-respected Founder of City Lights Design + Build, preserving historical integrity in the city of St. Louis for many years with his brother Richard. He was also a founding member and elder at New City Fellowship – South. He and Patti started their family and were also longtime members of Christian Fellowship in Columbia, MO, before his love of scripture led him back to St. Louis to obtain a Master of Divinity at Covenant Theological Seminary.

Randy was a man of many passions. A skilled carpenter, sensitive artist, lover of music, art and literature — he cultivated many hobbies and interests over the course of his life. He loved nature, hiking with Patti, gardening, tinkering around the house, loud music, watching birds and roasting coffee in the courtyard, and giving scratchy kisses to his grandsons. He is remembered for his thoughtfulness, wisdom, and mountainous stature as a gentle giant with a booming laugh.

There will be a memorial service Saturday, January 31, 2026, at 10 a.m., at The Journey Tower Grove (2833 S. Kingshighway Blvd. STL 63139). He will be laid to rest at Bellefontaine Cemetery and Arboretum (4947 W. Florissant Ave, STL 63115) following the service.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Firm Foundation Tutoring Program in his memory.

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    Karen Rider sent Enduring Spirit Pothos Basket for Randall James Middeke - 01/29/2026

    Dearest Claire and family, My sincere condolences on the loss of your father. It was a honor to care for him and meet the rest of your family.Sending you love and hugs! Karen Rider

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  • 02/03/2026

    Sharon Stevens

    Patti & family, Shevawn & family, & friends, I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear husband, father, brother, uncle, cousin, & friend. I remember Randy as always being such a kind person, with a big warm smile, like a big brother, & always looking out for others. May happy memories be with you, warm your hearts, bring you smiles, & give you strength always. 💖😇🙏✝️🪽✨🌹 Sharon Stevens

  • 01/27/2026

    Steven Davis

    God Bless peace be with you in Heaven

  • 01/27/2026

    Steven Davis

    I enjoyed growing up with your family and the good times we had. You will be dearly missed condolences to your family. Steve and April Davis

  • 01/26/2026

    Dianne Thompson

    Peace be with you Patti 💕 and your big, beautiful family. Such a good man will surely be missed and remembered. All of you were so blessed to have had him with you for so long. My thoughts and prayers are with you - Dianne Thompson

  • 01/24/2026

    Yvette Jones

    I haven't known Randy for long, but long enough to see his kind and loving heart. He never failed to greet me as he passed by where I sat. As I read the obituary about Randy, he lead a full and meaningful life. Above All He's a child of God. My brother we will see you again, in the glorious Kingdom. Patti as you already know. Randy is in good hands. Love, Yvette Jones.

  • 01/24/2026

    Yvette Jones

  • 01/24/2026

    Mary Jo & Ernie Verhulst

    Our sympathies and prayers at this most difficult time of loss. Be comforted by his living Spirit. Mary Jo ♥️ Ernie Verhulst

  • 01/23/2026

    Claire Saucier

    Oh Patti, I'm so sad to hear of Randy's passing. Whenever I think of him I see him smiling just like the picture you selected. My thoughts and prayers are with you at heart - breaking time.

  • 01/23/2026

    Janice Anderson

    We are saddened to hear about the death of our beloved brother! Jeff and I are praying for Patti and family. May God grant you comfort and peace.

  • 01/23/2026

    JoAnn Kirchhofer

    We are offering strength and courage during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. HUGS The Borgmeyer Family - Mary, Phil, Barry, LeAnn, Steve and JoAnn

  • 01/22/2026

    Kit West

    My farewell to a brother who stored up treasure in heaven, where moth and rust cannot destroy, and thieves cannot break in and steal. As one who knew a thing or two about residential fix-ups, Randy, I imagine you're finding delight in the place Jesus has been preparing for you! To Randy's wonderful family: blessed are those who mourn... may your grief be filled with bright hope in Christ

  • 01/22/2026

    David Stahlschmidt

    Sorry for your loss , may the Jesus Christ have mercy , i know you loss , i lost my brother last week, God bless!

  • 01/22/2026

    David Stahlschmidt

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